Their son/daughter kills him/herself “I didn’t know he/she was having serious problems”
"Why would you try to kill yourself?" "Why do you do this to us?" "Do you think you are the only one with emotions and problems?" "Why don’t you talk to us??"
Actual statement from my mother when she saw my self-harm scars for the first time: “If you needed more attention, why didn’t you just tell me?”
Hey, LD, I found you.
Jesus, is this really what some peoples parents are like?
"well, she is the youngest and we usually made her tag-along her older siblings and pretty much never went to her school plays or let her do sports/learn any instruments unlike her siblings and only saw her on maybe 4 days a week for more than 5 minutes, but we never would have guessed she would feel ignored/less important because of that!""what do you mean you need the day after you’ve been informed of your cousin’s death some time to mourn? life goes on!"
"that’s why she’s fat"
Adult me: “I feel that you neglected me, and I was very unhappy as a teenager because you didn’t give me enough attention (compared to what my brother and my sister got)”
Mother: *starts crying and go to her bedroom*
Father: “Go apologize to your mother for hurting her”
I’ve also heard everything I feel is because of hormones?
My sexuality? Hormones. Feeling down? Hormones. Feeling stressed and out of place? Hormones.